Today we use little hand held HD video recorders that record things so we aren't spotted.
Many brides have told me in the years that they didn't even notice me at the party. Here's a good page re centerpieces with eiffel tower vases.
Now lets take ourselves thirty years in the future. Humairah liked the creative beauty of that gimmicky ( earring ). Karthik stopped by a flower shop and acquired a jasmine garland. Humairah was pumped up about her hand being decorated. Try and imagine the number of brides nowadays who will be asserting in 30 years.