You wish to look dazzling and your shoes need to take you through to the end of the day without giving you even a touch of pain. Cross off names on the guest list who might feel responsible to come to the marriage if they are invited but would not have their feelings hurt if they don't seem to be asked to attend. Invite only the people that are crucial to you and your fogeys instead of everybody you know. If your marriage rite and / or reception will be held at a hotel, ask for kickbacks when your folks and chums are staying at same hotel. Reserve a block of rooms for your guests many months before the marriage for the best rates. Talk with the acceptable boss when asking for rebates and reserving rooms.
On your wedding day stick to your schedule for your rite and reception. There'll be no requirement for limos to take you to the second location. Many homes of worship have halls that are provided to handle marriage receptions at reasonable fees-especially if you're a member. If you have got a long or trailing wedding dress you might select a flat or low heel marriage shoe.
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